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Why Too Many Commit Suicide Because of Lost Love?

Why Too Many Commit Suicide Because of Lost Love? I've been asking myself so many times about this. Upon researching and reading articles about this topic, i came out with an answer. Actually some are known to me in person, some are friends and too sad to know that they do it, and even this time someone right now is planning to do it! Maybe all I can do to help him is to flood his Facebook wall with attractive message. People don't really understand how they feel, but understanding them may guide you to help those who are in need.

First. It is because of immaturity. Based on my observation and watching the experience of other person. There are too many man commit suicide than woman. Ladies are more matured than man, and they are not afraid to express loneliness.

Second reason, because of being centered or focus only in one person. A man would think that the lady is the only answer for his happiness, he exclude his friends, relatives and worst to know his family. A close minded person think that nobody would care for him and his life is worthless if he lost his heart. That person doesn't really care on anybody except for the one he love.

Third reason, because of not confronting to others. A man may not tell his problem because of shyness. But the most important thing to do is to tell the problem for those who are only involve. Despite it might be hard to communicate with his ex or former love. A communication with friends and making busy things would help to avoid suicide.

Fourth reason, because of complication of the problem. It is like a diagnosed health problem that may lead to a complication once it is not treated well. A small problem may lead to bigger one once it is left untreated that may lead to an unorganized situation. A person may hard to start because of too many problem may already arise and plan to end it all by quitting life.

Last reason is (and the most root of all reason is) he doesn't fear God and has a weak spirituality. We are ordered to love yourself, not to kill. Suicide is an act of killing, and it is one of a big sin in God's eye. An spiritually minded person find true happiness in sharing the good news and helping others (that most people don't understand why I say it that you can find true happiness in teaching).

I should write an article about "My Primary Photo" where i would like to show what really bothering me nowadays and what is my real face when camera is off, i mean when nobody is watching me. I manage not to tell anyone, not to affect my work and professionalism, and doesn't affect how people look at me. But I am only a human. To tell you honestly, I am also bothered with my own self, despite of being older than before and being professional, it is just because of a lost love. Right now, my heart is lost, but I can manage it. I plan to look for someone who could trust me the way i trust her. I am not looking for a better lady, but I just need someone to love me the way I love her. Someone I can tell my problems to become my shock absorber in hard times and someone who could tell her problems and I am happy to give advices. Someone who will not give meaning on every move that I do such as talking to other ladies in this world and someone I could give my trust. Someone who could believe on what I say, and not on others rumors. And lastly, someone who is not far away from me, who could touch me and I could touch her too so that I could hug her and say "I love you" in person.