What Should You Do When You Hurt Someone?
It is natural to have a conflict and misunderstandings. Your close friend may hurt you because of words he don't really mean it. In return you might hurt him too because of your temper. Whoever may came first it is important to fix the problem, or try making peace with him.
I know it is a little bit hard to fix a problem especially when one is not willing to accept error. The best thing to do “If your brother commits a sin, go lay bare his fault between you and him alone.” (Matthew 18:15) This means that don't tell other people yet, you must talk to him alone without other person involve. It is also written that “If, then, you are bringing your gift to the altar and you there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar, and go away; first make your peace with your brother.” (Matthew 5:23, 24) Whoever offended you or you offend others, it is vital to settle down promptly without others involve.
If you cannot fix the problem alone, then look for someone who can stand neutral in your conflict, and a person who wouldn't take side to anyone. I know it maybe hard to start, but living in peace give you peaceful and relax mind.
July 19th, 2010 - 11:01
We all commit mistake, no one imperfect is exempted from it. But what important is human are created to know how to forgive and love…
July 19th, 2010 - 18:21
I agree sir, if you think someone made a mistake against you, you should talk to him alone and not make a scene. Try to resolve the situation at the least possible number of people involved. Nice sir!
July 20th, 2010 - 10:38
thank you very much for your comments ^_^
July 22nd, 2010 - 16:09
nice photo… thanks for using my profile pic :p
July 22nd, 2010 - 22:05
thanks din tol… ingatz