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How To Cope, After Breaking-Up

I agree with the writer that breaking up is like some you love is dead. The information shared was very helpful and informative. This is one of the major problems of youth today, but the following quoted information written by the author is helpful.

It gives information on some stages feelings after breaking up and information on how to endure the pain. When I read the information, I can confidently say that these problems need a focus and it is not easy as you think. You may try to read information that may help you in future experience in your own life.

Here are some stages feelings after breaking-up:

• Denial. It’s usually bearing in our mind that I hope it’s not too late. He/she will change his mind…. Others says”It’s not true”. We are already in our individual way.(Hoping for reconciliation to be united again. )
• Anger. Because of unexpected & too much reaction, all good things that you sought during your courtship will be diverted into negative. You may ask, why he/she did this to me? I don’t want to see him/her again.
• Depression. Self-pity.
• Acceptance. It’s very hard, but he/she will trying their best to move on. It varies of the how long  how you got connected to each other. It takes time. Time will tell.

Moving On. To illustrate: A freshly wound, it can brought you pain, itchiness, but if you are eager to heal it. It not just happens over night. It is gradually sometimes the healing are too slow some are fast.You need to take good care to prevent from any infection.

Here are some it can help you to endure the pain:

• Voice out what you feels: It is not bad to cry nor it is sign of weakness. Ecleasiastes 3:1,4 says “…there is time to weep” & “a time to wail”. Cry but not too much.
• Take good care of your health. Good exercise & enough food & adequate sleep can help you to regain your strength.
• Make yourself busy. Continue doing things that you love most. Don’t isolate yourself too, esp. those people who concern in your welfare, they can help you to become positive.
• Pour out your real feelings thru prayers. 1 Peter 5:7 says”While you throw all your anxiety upon him, because he cares for you” &  Philippians 4:6,7 says  ”……let your petitions be made known to God; and the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your hearts and your mental powers by means of Christ Jesus.

Facing the reality, your life, your future. Live onward.Behind the clouds the sun still shining. Those clouds when it is heavy, it’s a part of cycle way to pour down. Then after the storm, the skies will be bright again.