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Small Courting Tips For Man

Before you start, you should know and treat relationship as sacred that will lead to marriage. In other cases if marriage is not really your goal in courting a girl, or if you are not sure why you like her, then you should stop. You should avoid courting a girl because of you have a heart broken problem, loneliness, aiming for sex, and just for fun. This helpful process will help you to avoid wasting your time, effort and money. It will also avoid future broken Heart, pains and failure.

Here are Serious Courting Tips that you can apply:

1. First, you need to ask her if she is single. If she is single, then you should go to the next process, if not, then find another one and move on as early as possible. You can leave her alone as a sign of respect.
2. Ask her if it is okay to know her more. You can have a little communication day by day by asking information about her, But if she refused to give information, honestly she don't like you. This process is case to case basis.
3. Ask her if she is ready into a relationship? If yes, then you should continue to the next process. If no, ask her when is the time she is ready? But be careful, when asking this question, she must be in good mode.
4. Ask a permission to court her, it is much better if you visit the girl at home as a sign of respect to her family and as a sign of being serious.
5. While courting her, ask her to go outside with a chaperon, if possible a trusted individual that will stand up neither on each one of you.
6. Never pretend that you are just her friend or best friend but your real motive is to be her partner, because a lady preferred a man who is frank and stick on our word.
7. Avoid making obvious ways that making things complicated such as using other person just to get notice by her.
8. Wait for a responds but not too soon if the lady can fall in love with you. If not, then you must say goodbye move on as soon as possible.
9. If a lady like you too, then it is already mutual, that is the time that you must prepare yourself to get her "yes" by giving gifts and flowers. It is also a time to propose and say "Can you be my girl?".
10. If she say "yes", then she is now your girlfriend and the next lesson you need to learn is how to maintain relationship.

Things to Avoid:

1. Letting the girl wait, remember that they will not initiate their feelings, they are just waiting for you to ask them.
2. Never give gifts specially if you still didn't ask her to court. Friendly gifts is not allowed and you are just making things complicated.
3. Avoid over impressive, and giving too much expectation by being too boastful.
4. Avoid using her family member to send messages to her, this is a sign of being coward. Don't use her father, brother, or any male members (most especially female members) to let her know that you like her, because she don't like to hear it, and you are just making a huge delay and communication too complicated with too many people involve.
5. Avoid spending too much money specially on courting, this will give you an impression of using money and not your heart. And be careful, lady would think you are too rich unless it is true.
6. Avoid losing her trust to you. Gain her trust by being on time, having one word and making everything okay at most of the time.
7. Avoid forcing. Never ask her to say "yes" if she say "no". If she really mean it yes, then even she say "no", she will make a way in order for that topic to be brought up again, and when you think its time to ask again, then you ask again the question.
8. If possible, don't send delicate message on text message or even phone calls, you must tell everything important in person.
9. Never always believe on everything she say, sometimes she just need attention and just making a way in order to have an attention that makes her stop talking.
10. Always be optimistic and think positive... And always never give up until she didn't say "Stop" in forcing way.

The above tips and "don'ts" are not 100 percent will work for you, you should know what is your situation are and plan by your own self what the best for you. Since the only person knows the situation is you.