Readjusting what you hate on yourself
Someone when we are hurt by someone, there are posibilities that we could do another mistakes. But this is a wrong. Someone might hurt you because of something or even there is no reason or even there is a little reason. The wrong thing you will do is creating another mistakes. Always remember that current mistakes cannot be fix by another mistake.
So lets try to site an example. If someone hurt you because of wrong judgement, just try to explain to her/him that she/he midjudge you. Now wait for a reply, if she/he agree on you, then good, if not, life must go on, you cannot please everybody. But dont try to make him/her angry, or returning evil for evil. And dont make any mistakes. You must stay calm and lowly and reasonable speaking or silence. A glass of water will not be empty if still pour water on it.
It maybe hard to do, and it is really hard to do especially for those hot tempered people who make mistakes in no time or instantly, all we need is selfcontrol, good thinking and proper speech without hidden intensions.
Everything will be alright, always remember that life is peaceful when there is no conflicts with others you care. When other people you dont care, that is another story, but you must have care with everybody to help them to have a good knowledge that will help them to find true hapiness. 
What i miss last 2007
Okay, actually it doesnt mean by missing is you want to return, hehe. Well i just miss them.
First is the band SDF, Fier, Timeless legacy, and some other small bands playing cover songs. The rehearsals and practice with moderate drinks. Watching battle of the bands and playing musical instrument.
Another one is the codeshop, due to career level up, the business need to turnover to another person which he needed it. Codeshop help me a alot in everything, mostly in skills that needed as a person. I am deeply honored that the business gain profit and with fast payback period. Now January the business still holds the name codeshop but soon to change it into Optimal Web Performance Internet Cafe, well its ok. But it will be a pain if the business is close under the management of new one.
Another is ACLC, its one of my foundation, there are people who put me in mold, nurtured me and help me even in hard times. With strong faculty staff and administrator since i enter the school, i was able to develop my IT knowledge which helps me to contribute into business knowledge.
The big thing i miss is the lady i learn to love by waiting for the right time to court her. I give my heart without knowing by her, hehe its a big stupidity i did last year. Its like i am having a fantasy that only me knows it. But also learn to forget her last december to kill the pain, watta experience, the most memorable up to date. She is from Munoz, Quezon City, now currently in Potrero Malabon, MM. with a hometown in Pangasinan.
Another one i miss is the trips at Bacayao norte at night during the elections. Missing the company that break by work and schooling. During the vacation we have a good company that i hope i will have vacation this summer to return and have trip again, hehe.
My boss, he is the best boss i ever had from most of all. Teach me and help me level up in this called game life. Many things i learn that even by an old person doesnt know. He is 47 years old and i can say, he is very experienced. Not an ordinary, he is one of the riches people than bill gates, hehehe. You know what i mean.
Another place i miss is Laguit Centro which i can say its a part of my life because i plan my family in this place, but i was failed. But still the place is more than a memory to me, its already my life. I can visit anytime, but the ambience and place i want is not as good as before that with hopes and dreams, now it is just an ordinary place, but the only thing didnt change, is the smiling people with care and love including true friends.
There are some people that i miss because of going abroad and leaving the places, but im sure they will come back and even we are far away and without any news from them, i know in there heart they are always remembering us here even we will not talk until the time of end.
2007 is a time that everything happen in a small period of time, it is like 10 years, lol. hehe. But what i dont miss is my personality that changed a lot because of someone and some lessons that learned personaly, moraly and others.
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About me
im a frank, understanding, silent, shy type, simple, immature looks, transparent. myt not equipted with good looks but true person. Love to learn interesting ideas. I want help my friends and everybody to have a life-saving knowledge. I simplify everything. avoiding complex. Simple life, less stress. I move fast, a months is like a year, maximizing my day by doing what i can do in a week, hehe. doing imposibles wahaha coz life is short, you will just amazed how i travel from different places so fast, lol... when in love, i know if genuine, ill give everything, i dont like slowly and hiding real feelings or not frank, closeminded, coz it gives waiting pain in future. I am able to smooth every fight. Neutral. Nothing bothers me, coz i have my own world, hehe biro lang. I am a jolly person, just emo frank when there is really a problem but nothing worries me. I dont care on rumors, i dont care on non-sense talks as long as they dont touch me, hehehe. i'm always cool and calm. I hide for those people i dont know, but i am showy frank and boastful for those i trust most. Might judge me wrong pero ok lang ako kasama, di ko lang alam sa inyo, hehehe.
Who i Want to meet
at frienship, who can make me a better person, im looking for a friend who is richer than bill gates, i find them very few, i mean rich in good personality , a real, di makasarili, not a bad influence one, di aq namimili kahit sino basta wag lang plastik, or iiwas ako without disconnection notice. a lifetime partner, i want to meet a girl who has strong christian faith ung totoo ah hindi pakitang tao lang, best personality, never been kissed, never been touched, and never been in any relationship since birth, it must be smart and intelligent hehe ung mga may honor, jeje joke lang un, matured dapat, masayahin and with sense of humor, ayoko ng emo, kasi wala silang understanding... sa itsura syempre natural na maputi, maganda, makinis ang balat, dapat baby face, sexy and hot, at best shot kahit ano angle saka di nagmamakeup sa bahay at di maarti ung kaya matulog sa daan, saka understanding, respect the headship of man and value relationship as sacred para more romantic. sa estado sa buhay, kahit taga bundok o walang pera basta nasa kanya ang mga importanteng quality na hinahanap ko in longterm goals kc mas masaya, hehe. pero sobra akong mapili eh kaya i treat them as one in a million, hehehe.
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It was a funny night at my room
Last sunday, going monday. I called my mom in my room. Which is sometimes it is very imposible that they will stay in my room because of unorganized things. Unclean room, a place in the house which full of insects and mosquitos, hehehe. and some bad odors, hehehe. lolz.
Surprisingly i play a movie that i am asking them if they can guest what is it. So i play the intro of the movie which is we are watching it online. That was past 11 pm. And my father came into my room too with my sister. After minutes of intro, they was amazed of the movie i played it is "The sound of music" Which is one of the movie i remember when i was 2 years old, and it is the very first movie i watch in my life. A movie released last 1965.
It is very funny because we finished watching movie at 2.30 am, and it is never happening in the house that they will sleep at that time. Just because of the movie. I am just so happy and i wake up at 12 in the noon in the afternoon.
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Example of Good Apology
There are articles we need to consider in apologizing. Not just apology but must be genuine one. Not like posting in a public bulletin or shouting to all, or there is a contradict information in its private text to others different to the reciepient and different on others or there is a hidden private mind that is not really intentionally to express to the recipient which is being untrue.
Anyway, the truth will set us free, if you really dont like the person because of personality, you must tell him/her rather than being untrue. Not hiding what is really inside your mind or being unreal, because you must help the person to readjust. True apologize is not by words and not really by words, even the one we value most is not looking for words, but are meant by actions and not in public like posting it into a bulletin that you shout into the whole world, because that is showy. When helping people, when talking to someone which is important, we use private messaging or not on traitor way of saying different to the others, and different to the recipient. Remember that we trained to be interested on others too, and not to rely on our own understanding and reasons. Pity on those who are lack of knowledge, because they are hiding the real pain inside.
All we want to be hate by someone who hate us, and love by someone who love us. But hating us but deep inside there is a selfish love, and showing impressing love but deep inside is hatred. It is a person who is lying, and reflects its moral standards without judging the person but describing the real personality.
To avoid the word “sorry”
It is always a getway for most of the sins, after hurting a sorry, we feel we can fix everything from the word. But dont abuse it, dont repeat mistakes many times. When you try to hurt a person and your intension is to say sorry after all. DOnt do. Think of a consequence first before you will do. Dont use the word sorry as you mean its okay after all. Because once you hurt a person the trust will lost.
It was a great honor, i cant believe it.
At this moment, i just say goodbye to the telephone for almost 2 hours of talk time. I cant believe i was here right now writing on this blog with new ideas that will help my whole life. Its gives big impact on myself, the reality and informations that even the oldest person might dont know. I was so much happy i have those, because of someone i can call it as a friend. My Former boss. This was the time for my dissertation and i ask some of advices and consult some problems, but as the time goes by we came into reality and problem solving of human being, which i treated as one of the best information i have at this time. Its not just our life, but our future life. "I owe this informations, i am here for help that i can do." Thank you very much.