Mistakes of falling in love
1. Giving up everything because of her.
Because of love, you give up everything important to
you or everything that makes you happy, but remember
also to set aside optimism or positive outlook, live
in reality, wake up man! you are just too blind to
know and appreciate because you have those, think
about what if you lost your family and your friends.
what if you lost DOTA, and no more DOTA games, lol.
2. Making yourself closer to sins (like drinking)
Being in love sometimes allow ourself to drink if we
have conflicts, but it doesnt fix any conflicts, do
you? If you fix conflicts while drinking, you are not
in love, but both of you is looking for sex. lol
3. Forgeting your family and friends
Yes, it might be funny and hard to accept, but you put
her first than your family, you impress her most than
your family. But do you think its right? Your family
are with you since birth, without them you are
nothing.
4. You cant sleep during the night
Because of thinking, you forgot your assignments, and
tommorows task, just because of thinking you wasted
your 5 hours everynight just to think of her,
prioritize the important matters, rather than thinking
for nothing.
5. Worst, Forgeting yourself, your study, your job and
everything important to you.
Who i am? you might think why you did those, you dont
know why you are doing this, well because your mind is
centered in one person, but think about this, there
are 8 billion people in this planet, its not only 2
person living here. Anyway good advice, if you are
married, think of it, there are only 2 person living
here and you will be happy as a couple. 
Hardest part of both parties in expressing love.
MAN
The hard part of a lady is telling that she has no
feeling to the man. While the hardest part of a man is
continue to court while he dont know that the lady
doesnt care. The reason of the ladies why they dont
tell that they have no feelings because they afraid of
hurting the man, they dont know as the time goes by,
they are putting the man's heart on deeper pain
inside.
LADIES
Also the hardest part of the ladies is to express how
they feel to a man, because they have the pride of
they are the one to be courted. So the hard part of a
man is to know if the lady has a feeling inside that
she cant express because of hindraces that the man
dont know.
BOTH
Both hardest part is to accept the reality that the
other one has no feelings to them, both of man and
woman will suffer because the one they admire or the
one they are dreaming to grow old with has no feelings
with them, with different love, or worst sometimes,
they dont know how to appreciate love.
ADVICE
Innocence in love sometimes making one heart close in
love, so open your heart and appreciate the beauty and
hardships of the one who love you, because he/she
might be one in a million that you cannot find anymore
in your whole life. Open your heart and dont force
yourself to fall in love, let your heart speak and let
your own heart teach yourself that you are a little
blind in love.
It was the story
It was months ago around two months the lady lost attention to the man, the man still understand the lady and think she is just too busy, but the man dont know that the lady dont like him anymore. She just mistakenly said her feelings that he like him, now the man is still hoping. But after few months, the man realize that it is really different since... he has a doubt that the lady dont have anymore feelings, and it was just mistakenly expressed. So the man send a letter to the lady expressing all his feelings. Now the lady read the letter, but she is only finding a way to let the man stop courting her. She told the man, she is not really ready, after few conversation, she said, lets just be friends, and finally after many conversation, she said, i have no feelings and i think i will fall in love with you as time comes, so the man is really sad. Why did the lady still wait for long time to tell the man that she dont like him? Because of a reason that she dont like to hurt anyone, but for man it is wrong, in order to give respect. If the man didnt ask or send any letter, until now the man is still hoping for nothing. It is nice to know that man think also about himself, and not much focusing on her, now he realize the lady doesnt really care about him since the first time.
Simple heart-in-pain advice
If you really truly love the person, you need to put her first before you think about yourself. You need to practice unconditional love.
Express your love, forgive and let go. Wish her the best in her future life. Also forgive yourself for your part in it, and resolve to move on with your life. That is the best you can do for yourself and to her.
The better way to deal with it is to keep projecting unconditional love and peace to her, to yourself and to everyone concerned and to move on with a free remorseless mind full of peace and love.
The best way to deal with is to putting your mind in your priorities in life, like listing down: god, family, her, education, friends. If she is in 3rd, pull out the 4th and make it 3rd. and Dont forget you have 1st and 2nd who will make you happy than her. As the time goes by, you will have no regreets loving her, but the most important, she became part of your life and you experience to love. But one thing you will realize. You forgot yourself because of her, and its time to wait for someone who will loves you that you will love in return more than her. Or someone who is better than her. If you can't find someone? then you are insane, you are the one who is lacking, this is what you should realize. I hope it helps, in the time of lost, there is still tomorrow waiting, and you are the only one thinking negatively because you are insane during that time, now its time to laugh at yourself because you forgot you are a human, you are intelligent, not insane who doesnt know what is the purpose of this life and how to become happy.
About job i like…
When it comes to job, i am not choosy, all i want is simple job, well first for me, is must not be time consuming. It must not consume my time, its not part time, it is still full time, because i have my first priorities. Working 30 hours a week is enough for me, life is too short, you must live your life to the fullest, you must have more time to yourself and service to your creator.
I hate no regrets
She became part of my life, she turn me for good, quit many things. I have no regrets, if she is happy, i am also happy. Ill do everything what she want. I want to thank her.
How to forget a lady you love that you cant fight anymore because she want to get out of her life
Its so hard to kill the pain, but first of all you must really help yourself to kill this feeling. Because it is your life, this is your life and you must move on. The first week is the hardest, but after a week and you can move on, It is ok now. Time will come you will soon to forget her. The reason why people even years cannot move on because they dont help themselves or even dont give any love to themself. First week you need to open all your feelings to her and released all. At this week you must be with your 1st and 2nd priority that makes you happy. Yes you must learn to forget her, in order for yourself to be okay.
1st day: Released all your love to her, prove that you really love her and you will give everything, in this point you will soon realize that you will really hurt on what happen.
2nd day: Prepare your mind... Tell yourself that she is already gone, its more likely a person who is dead. When someone you love is gone, u will feel the pain at first. But also realize that life must go on.
3rd day: Close all plans on her, if posible keep everything that makes her memorable, all things must be in keep place. Pictures, etc. and others, avoid places that makes you think of her.
4th day: Dont call her or text her, avoid conversations with her. But its not the end to talk to her, wait for several months, 6 months, if posible a year to text her or call, and to really accept her friendship... as she offer as lady's gateway on pushing out a man.
5th day: Maintain what you are doing and if posible dont believe on anything posible changes that might occur even she will tell you that she want you again if there is no posible reasons or just a word without actions. Always put yourself first, before anything else.
Remember, lastly... A smart man think dat d lady he love in present s d best, but if broken, he wil look 4 another imposible, it will be harder 4 him to find coz d requirements and quality must go higher to kill d pain, to forget, & to cure a traumatic fragile heart.
20 ways to forget a love after broken
I am very sure you will be okay after a week after finishing all of this, life is too short, move on quickly, don’t wait for years and pain is still in your heart. True love is hard to kill, it takes years to forget, but it takes only weeks to have a improvement and confidence, suceeding weeks will be okay, Expect it. If you cannot do the list below, expect you will suffer for months, even years, but worst is lifetime.
1. Prepare your mind, express all feelings first
2. Avoid places and things that make you think
3. Never be alone at all times, go around
4. Don’t forget to tell it to your best friend
5. Think that its her lost not yours, even its not.
6. Think positively that someone is more better than her
7. Never believe whatever she say, after final severe broken
8. Never talk to her for a week, but after it to know your improvement
9. Take vacation but never be alone
10. Make your short-term dreams come true like games level up
11. Prioritize your family and cousins but exclude friends
12. Listen to dance Songs and watch comedy Movies
13. Don’t drink while alone, just never be alone
14. Improve eating habits and go to gym for a week
15. Improve your physical appearance, look better
16. Learn new ideas like playing musical instrument
17. Write and express problems in the blogsite to let go
18. Have a joy on helping people or community service
19. Make yourself a lot of work but avoid to be tired
20. Pray for help
He is healing the brokenhearted ones, and is binding up their painful spots.
(Psalm 147:3)